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Same Sex Adoption

Adoption and Same-Sex Couples: Types of    Adoption


Depending on the type of adoption gay and lesbian parents are interested in — public, private, independent, open or international — there may be different considerations involved in disclosing sexual orientation. How open prospective adoptive parents are about their homosexuality depends upon the couples’ personal feelings on disclosure, whether direct questions are asked, and what the laws in the state of residency are.

One important point for all prospective adoptive parents to be aware of is the difference between not sharing private information, and deliberately lying at any time in the adoption process. Although it is completely legal to omit information regarding homosexuality, it is illegal to lie about it when confronted directly. Failing to tell the truth during the adoption process is considered fraud, and raises the chance that the adoption will be halted, or at least disrupted.

Public Agency Adoption

For prospective gay and lesbian parents, success in adopting from the public child welfare system depends on the state adoption law and the attitude of the agency. For example, in New York and California, gay and lesbian prospective adoptive parents are protected against discrimination. It is illegal for public agencies in those states to reject adoptive parents on the basis of sexual orientation. However, that is not a guarantee that prejudices don’t exist. Social workers who are uncomfortable with homosexuality may find the prospective adoptive parents unsuitable for other reasons.

Each state decides independently who can adopt. Since the final decision is made by judges at the county level, the availability of adoption as an option to openly gay and lesbian couples is influenced by the political and social community in which the family lives. The court’s decision hinges on the “best interest” of the child, a concept interpreted differently by different judges.

Private Agency Placements

Private agencies establish their own criteria for the prospective adoptive parents. Age, religion, fertility status, marital status and sexual orientation all may be agency considerations. Some private agencies may disregard sexual orientation, and will present the prospective parent as a single adopter who lives with another adult, who will share the responsibilities of raising the child. This omission of sexual orientation is based on the agency’s judgement and relevancy to the applicant’s parenting qualifications.

Independent and Open Adoption

An independent adoption is an adoption facilitated by those other than caseworkers associated with an agency. The facilitator may be a physician, an attorney, or other intermediary. In an independent adoption the placement decision (within the provisions of the state statute) is completely up to the families involved. However, independent adoption does not necessarily mean an open adoption. An open adoption involves some amount of initial and/or ongoing contact between birth and adoptive families. The adoptive and birth parents agree upon the birth parents’ role, future communication, and the degree of openness prior to adoption. Being honest with the birth parents from the first contact allows gay and lesbian adoptive parents the opportunity to have a relationship without the possibility of a disrupting secret.

International Adoption

Adopting a child from a foreign country may involve finding an agency willing to accept the adoptive parents’ sexual orientation, disclosing the information to the contacts in the sending country, and presenting the information to the foreign government. However, conservative or religious countries (and often developing countries) may not be as receptive to gay and lesbian couples. Adoptive parents need to be aware that foreign governments and courts are making placement decisions based on their cultural standards and what they feel is in the best interest of the child.

(From the National Adoption Information Clearinghouse (U.S. Department of Health & Human Services)

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Copy and paste the link below to your browser to read an excerpt from A Legal Guide for Lesbian and Gay Couples by Denis Clifford, Frederick Hertz, Emily Doskow, Hayden Curry published in 2007. It discusses all forms of adoption. Particularly pages 109-112.
http://books.google.com/books?id=eiSFx_Fm-FcC&printsec=frontcover&source=gbs_summary_r&cad=0#PPA110,M1

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